Look at Him -

Anna Starobinets

Slavica Pub

2020

151 páginas

5h 2m

ISBN-13: 9780893575038

Journalist, scriptwriter, and novelist Anna Starobinets often called Russia's Stephen King is best known for her work in horror and her writing for children. In this groundbreaking memoir, Starobinets chronicles the devastating loss of her unborn son to a fatal birth defect. After her son's death, Starobinets suffers from nightmares and panic attacks; the memoir describes her struggle to find sympathy, community, and psychological support for herself and her family.

A finalist for the 2018 National Bestseller Prize, Look at Him ignited a firestorm in Russia, prompting both high praise and severe condemnation for the author's willingness to discuss long-taboo issues of women's agency over their own bodies, the aftereffects of abortion and miscarriage on marriage and family life, and the callousness and ignorance displayed by many in Russia in situations like hers.

Beautiful, darkly humorous, and deeply moving, Look at Him explores moral, ethical and quintessentially human issues that resonate for families in the world beyond Russia, as well. [A] most important statement on a topic that no one has ever spoken aloud here [in Russia] necessary, traumatic, but also healing reading for any woman, and also for any man living with a woman and contemplating having children with her. Galina Yusefovich I could only read a little bit at a time because a personal story about late-term abortion is so intensely emotional. Even so, I had a hard time putting the book down at night. --- Lisa Hayden, Lizok's Bookshelf

Resenhas (2)

4 (Muito bom)

Leitura rápida, envolvente (assustadora) e bastante relevante

Narra a experiência da autora grávida de um bebê que sofre de displasia policística renal. Anna faz exames de ultrassom e todos confirmam que o bebê não deve resistir. Ela passa ler e acompanhar depoimentos de gestantes que tiveram que abortar ou que recusam abortar e frequenta clínicas de vários especialistas a fim de obter uma solução, mas na Rússia os especialistas tratam seu filho como ''feto'' ou ''embrião'', se sente culpada, sua filha de oito anos se sente culpada. E então tenta buscar tratamento fora do país. Compara a forma como é tratada em Moscou e posteriormente em Berlim. Não há na Rússia especialização nem humanização da gestação / decisão de abortar. Esse livro deveria ser divulgado por aqui.